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Do you choose Love?

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Do you know the story about the bet between the Sun and the Wind, who will take off the Man’s Jacket?The wind tries hard to take it off but the man held it so hard because he was cold and he needed it. Than comes the sun and the man was warm and he took off the jacket surrender to love.

Are you like the wind, holding into something so hard just to not lose such as holding to a job you don’t like, or dysfunctional marriage….

If fear is the reason why you are still holding into your “jacket” than it is better to surrender. The poem below ( by Sarah Nean Bruce) can help you identify the destructive pattern of behavior. It is recommended that you write just a few words  from the poem that describes your choice of actions, and start changing the direction of the “wind.” If you can take one action of love  a day, the “jacket” will come off easily.

Have a sunny day,

LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL (fear is conditional)

LOVE IS STRONG (fear is weak)

LOVE RELEASES (fear obligates)

LOVE SURRENDERS (fear binds)

LOVE IS HONEST (fear is deceitful)

LOVE TRUSTS (fear suspects)

LOVE ALLOWS (fear dictates)

LOVE GIVES (fear resists)

LOVE FORGIVES (fear blames)


LOVE CHOOSES (fear avoids)

LOVE IS KIND (fear is angry)

LOVE IGNITES (fear incites)

LOVE EMBRACES (fear repudiates)

LOVE CREATES (fear negates)

LOVE HEALS (fear hurts)

LOVE IS MAGIC (fear is superstitious)

LOVE ENERGIZES (fear saps)

LOVE IS AN ELIXIR (fear is a poison)

LOVE INSPIRES (fear worries)

LOVE DESIRES (fear Joneses)

LOVE IS PATIENT (fear is nervous)

LOVE IS BRAVE (fear is afraid)

LOVE IS RELAXED (fear is pressured)

LOVE IS BLIND (fear is judgmental)

LOVE RESPECTS (fear disregards)

LOVE ACCEPTS (fear rejects)

LOVE DREAMS (fear schemes)

LOVE WANTS TO PLAY (fear needs to control)

LOVE ENJOYS (fear suffers)

LOVE FREES (fear imprisons)

LOVE BELIEVES (fear deceives)

LOVE “WANTS” (fear “needs”)

LOVE versus fear: what do you feel?

By Sarah Nean Bruce

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