Journey of “self” discovery

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My inspiration for Soul Speaking Coaching Program

In 2014, I published my book Walking in the Footsteps of the Masters after almost seven years of research as well as growing up in Israel where a reality of separation caused by fear motivated me to seek spiritual meaning beyond religions that connect us all.

As soon as I read the scriptures of world religions, I made a big discovery!!!

The common pattern of the experiences of the Great Masters—Buddha, Jesus, Moses and Muhammad—indicate a spiritual path that is similar in nature to your own. I found seven milestones in their lives that illustrate those patterns and their significance.

If you are familiar with Joseph Campbell’s work about the Hero’s Journey, you know that the Hero’s Journey also indicates a life pattern that reflects on your own life. In fact, many authors use those patterns to structure their stories. My work has a similar approach to Campbell. It is based on the wisdom of the Masters that directly relates to their experiences. It is a spiritual journey that will help you understand your own life and at the same time give you tools to help your clients figure out the mystery of their lives.

I worked hard on developing the spiritual concept and created a coaching program that helps implement it. My goal is to make my discovery known and give the gift of healing to many people. It would not do anyone good if I kept it secret!!!!

My bigger vision is to inspire hope for coexistence and unity, where all human beings speak the language of the soul no matter what faith they believe in.

 

What is my unique coaching approach?

Most coaching programs focus on “cosmetic change” because what people see on the outside may help them feel good inside. This program is different. It’s soul-centered, focusing on discovering your client’s soul truth. At first I teach my coaches to seek information about their client’s core value, reflecting on their life experience. I purposely insist on not taking any actions right away. The goal is to collect information about their client’s life pattern in order to discover resistance, identify beliefs, and learn about their fears and blocks. As a result of this work, you will be able to identify your client’s core value, which is the foundation of the desired change. Once you are able to get clear about your client’s core value, you will start aligning your client’s life choices with their core value and help them make significant changes in every aspect of their life.

I highly recommend becoming familiar with my book, which demonstrates this concept through the journeys of the Masters.

https://www.amazon.com/Walking-Footsteps-Masters-Ronit-Gabay/dp/1941049222/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1486837973&sr=8-1&keywords=ronit+gabay

Walking in the footsteps of the masters

 

Turn Your Pain into Gain

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Awakening of empathy leads to compassion.  This statement summarizes my entire approach to coaching.  

Your pain experience has to be the motivation behind your wish to be a coach. It has to provide the content and the structure to your coaching. Would you agree?

My coaching philosophy is “Discover your pain and then make sure to do everything and anything so that no one else will be hurt by it.” If this statement is aligned with your passion for serving, then I invite you to take the next step.

Your core value is always linked to the experience of pain and therefore, the pain helps you realize its significance for your life. For instance, Malala Yousafzai who was shot by the Taliban in Pakistan is fighting for her right to go to school. The pain that this experience brought emphasizes the importance of education as her core value. Would you agree that education will play a big role in her future?

Your pain will help you get in touch with your core value and bring a level of awareness to create your business from this place. During the coaching training, you will become a “client,” receiving coaching from your partner whom you will also coach. This way you get the experience of the process of transformation from both sides. In the end, you will have content that will be uniquely yours, and you will be able to find the right message and structure that goes along with it.

I believe that your healing from your past pain only comes full circle when you become a messenger of change. Every time you help one person heal, you heal your own emotional scarring from that hurt, and you complete the cycle of healing.

Walking the walk and talking the talk will make you a much better coach.

 

 

Breaking through Life-coaching approach

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Do you want to have an 80% to 100% successful experience working with your clients? Do you want to be a top coach having clients that would refer you to more people? Do you want to help more people, making better income???

Then say good-bye to old school coaching and welcome the new approach: Soul Speaking Coaching!!

The old style of coaching does not deliver results to your clients!

Old coaching focuses on spiritual principles that are not enough to provide an experience of transformation.

 Most coaches introduce spiritual principles to their clients, such as quantum physics, the law of attraction, the science of mind, and so on. The coaches are hoping to train their clients’ minds to adapt to the universal principle and therefore create a shift of consciousness. Though those principles raise our awareness to alternative thinking, they do not hold the potential for life transformation. They do, however, increase the frequencies of change and certainly can support transformation and spiritual growth.

The new way of coaching is soul-center focused.

  • You help your clients get to know themselves on a soul level.
  • You help your clients identify their core value by creating their soul blueprint, which gives you and them a bigger picture about their life.
  • You help your clients review their past experiences, understanding their life choices.
  • After identifying their core value, you help your clients restructure their life by aligning their life choice with their core value.
  • You help restore life from the foundation and create a new life based on a new awareness.

Old coaching focuses on what you desire to have, new coaching focuses on who you are?

The book The Secret introduced many people to some spiritual laws and encouraged them to create a Vision Board, visualizing their desired life with pictures. Many of those Vision Boards are a picture-perfect expression of their mansion, cars, and luxurious life. Everything on their wish list is external!!!

In fact, most advertising associates happiness with external change, such as, “If you lose weight, you will be happy.” It is like saying that the most attractive package has the best value. That is a false belief. You might have the best body or have no financial issues and yet you still can be unhappy about your life. You don’t need to change your package; you need to work on what’s inside it. A better metaphor is a picture that reminds you of a bad memory: if you change the frame, you’ll still look at the same picture, right?

And so, transformation can only happen when you work on your client’s interior design, setting a new foundation for their future. For example, if your client has a pattern of being bullied, you have to go deeper into the issue that most likely would link to their core value. You have to make your clients aware of their own resistance to accepting change that leads them to the outcome of change. Core value coaching is a soul-centered approach and therefore, what you reset at the foundation level will last forever.

Which coaching approach do you believe in?

Soul Speaking Coaching is the only coaching that is proven to deliver fast and long-lasting results to your clients. Most of my clients made significant changes in their lives within 3-to-6 months.

 

Insight about Core Value Coaching

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Your core value is giving you a new spiritual identity. It doesn’t mean that you will change your religious affiliation, but rather get in touch with your authentic self, knowing who you truly are. Come to think of it, you didn’t choose your birth identity, you just accepted it. Searching for your truth will give you a chance to reflect on your spiritual identity eliminate the untruth from your life.
“He who seeks finds.”
Before you start to understand the mystery of your life, let me first explain the full definition of Core Value. Here are five categories that give it a true meaning. Your core value has to have these five elements:
First, the core value is a value that you strongly believe in, not because you think it is nice to believe in it, but because your life experience taught you a lesson of some sort that highlights the relevance to the core value in your life. In other words, the core value is relevant to you life. You can’t believe in something that isn’t relevant to you. For example, I believe in a second chance for students, since I was the kind of student that needs this chance.
The second is similar to the first one, the core value is attached to your pain experience. You might have more than one pain experience in your life, and each pain teaches you an important lesson. As a result of reviewing your pain, ask yourself what was the most painful experience you ever had, and what is the lesson that you learned from it. Your core value linked to it. For me, the pain of separation from my own family and the separation of the two people in my birth land in Israel only highlights the important of unity that I have been craving.
The third category is the level of commitment to your core value.
If it is important to you have to stand for it whole heartily and willing to fight for it, just like Malala Yosefi that hurt by a gun shot with yet she stood with courage to protect her right to go to school before she becomes an international hero. She didn’t do it to become a hero but truly to have a fair chance to be an educated woman, because she recognized that education is power. If you strongly believe in something in spite of the fact that other would not support you or if they don’t think the way you do, you are fully committed to it. Your level of commitment to the higher ideal is beyond your physical existence, it beyond your personal needs. Your core value has been giving you a strong sense of purpose.
The fourth category is your reaction if you feel that something is missing from your surroundings. If you don’t have it in your surrounding or you witness someone violating it violate it and you can’t keep quiet, it is a validation of your core value. You personally feel responsible for doing something to restore the essence of your core value in your living soundings to fix what was broken. Think about Gandhi that can’t live without human right in Africa; Think about Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. that can’t live without the equal rights for people of colors. Even I felt the sense of lack in my own country when I was not allowed to interact with non-Jews, or asking questions about other people because of the fear of assimilation. I only discovered this lack when I went to Israel on my first visit after having different experiences in the United States. My awareness of weakness of my surroundings made me an advocate of unity wherever I go and whatever I do. It is part of my natural behavior and it helps me making different choices about my life.
The fifth category of core value as if it’s continues to challenge your experience in spite of the fact that you are taking actions to align your life with it every day in your life. Your core value always being challenged in situations that link you to an old tradition, or when you are surrounded with people you love in spite of the fact that they don’t think the same way. Until today I experience challenges about celebrating certain holidays to be with my own family, honoring some traditions that I don’t want to be part of it and making family decisions revolve on a logical reason vs. religious one.
Just because you know your core value and you make a different decision to change your life, does not mean that you live challenges free life for the rest of your life. However, the awareness and attention you had about your core value will keep you grounded and guide your directions. Once you accept your truth, other people will learn to respect and accept it and you most likely don’t have to compromise your truth to accommodate them. Therefore, it will eliminate struggle to lose yourself.

When you finally discover the truth about yourself, you will make a different choice to align your life with it from this point on.

The 3 mistakes that most coaches, and what I do differently?

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Mistake 1: Fix me

  • Most coaches tend to jump into fixing the client’s problem way too soon before building trust with clients
  • Encouraging clients to make changes before they are ready to do so
  • Focus on Doing and not on their being

    A great coach helps the client get to know himself or herself!

  • Collect information about the client’s life experiences to learn about his truth
  • Help your client to understand that their life choices based on past experiences.

Mistake 2 – External Transformation  

Most coaches are working with the clients on changing the “frame of a picture” not the picture itself.

         A great coach helps their clients to identify their soul truth, so they create changes in their lives from the inside out.

  • Creating client’s soul profile, identifying their core value
  • When they identify that, they will be able to stop the resisting pattern that leads to a crisis. After that, they will start making life choices that are good for them.
  • Raising your client’s awareness so they can “get there” using their own willpower.

Mistake 3 – Quick fix

A great coach helps their clients to transform their life and restructure it from the foundation.

  • The core value coaching focus on the healing process step by step to walk your client through a complete transformation
  • After discovering the core value, you help your client to restructure their life based their core value
  • Your help to take action steps that fit their natural state of being.
  • aches lack of structure and techniques.

 

Soul Speaking Coaching Program designed to take you through the process of transformation so you can walk the walk before talking the talk.

We provide the structure of transformation and you create the content, sharing your wisdom clients.

 

7 Modules that will guide you to work with your client

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Module 1 – Going Forth
Your client’s environmental conditions influence his or her choices in life. Help your client to eliminate “untruth” in order to identify his or her soul truth.

Module 2 – Looking Inward
Access your client’s soul truth using his or her own life experiences. You will guide your client to identify childhood memories that serve as an authentic clue of truth. You will use conflict to highlight the client’s truth.

Module 3 – Direction signs
You will identify “tour guides” through the “forest” of life and understand the messages that lead your clients on a journey of transformation. You will l help your client recognize important “direction signs” and their meaning.

Module 4a and 4b – Reprogramming
This module is about an internal transformation that keeps your client in the dark, consumed by fear. You will b help your client communicate his or her fears. You will identify false beliefs that prevent your client from moving forward. In the end, you will help him or her to turn fear-based actions into love-driven actions, in order to overcome obstacles.

Module 5a and 5b – Inner Conflict
You will create a very good overview of their client’s profile, including their values, fears, false beliefs, and painful experiences. This information serves as a springboard to identify core values. You will help your client identify their core values. You will also help your client to resolve his or her inner conflict to live by their truth

Module 6 – Awakening
The module is focused on creating a new life based on the newfound truth. You will help to align your client’s life choices with their core values in each aspect of their life. This step-by-step technique guides you to suggest action steps for implementing changes from the inside out.

Module 7a and 7b – Awakening of Empathy
This module focuses on deep healing learning about karmic connection and its meaning and purpose. You will be able to distinguish between a minor karma event that guides your client to his or her next destination and a major karma event that leads to complete transformation. You will help your client understand their life lesson, implementing the healing technique.

Do you choose Love?

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Do you know the story about the bet between the Sun and the Wind, who will take off the Man’s Jacket?The wind tries hard to take it off but the man held it so hard because he was cold and he needed it. Than comes the sun and the man was warm and he took off the jacket surrender to love.

Are you like the wind, holding into something so hard just to not lose such as holding to a job you don’t like, or dysfunctional marriage….

If fear is the reason why you are still holding into your “jacket” than it is better to surrender. The poem below ( by Sarah Nean Bruce) can help you identify the destructive pattern of behavior. It is recommended that you write just a few words  from the poem that describes your choice of actions, and start changing the direction of the “wind.” If you can take one action of love  a day, the “jacket” will come off easily.

Have a sunny day,

LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL (fear is conditional)

LOVE IS STRONG (fear is weak)

LOVE RELEASES (fear obligates)

LOVE SURRENDERS (fear binds)

LOVE IS HONEST (fear is deceitful)

LOVE TRUSTS (fear suspects)

LOVE ALLOWS (fear dictates)

LOVE GIVES (fear resists)

LOVE FORGIVES (fear blames)

LOVE IS COMPASSIONATE (fear pities)

LOVE CHOOSES (fear avoids)

LOVE IS KIND (fear is angry)

LOVE IGNITES (fear incites)

LOVE EMBRACES (fear repudiates)

LOVE CREATES (fear negates)

LOVE HEALS (fear hurts)

LOVE IS MAGIC (fear is superstitious)

LOVE ENERGIZES (fear saps)

LOVE IS AN ELIXIR (fear is a poison)

LOVE INSPIRES (fear worries)

LOVE DESIRES (fear Joneses)

LOVE IS PATIENT (fear is nervous)

LOVE IS BRAVE (fear is afraid)

LOVE IS RELAXED (fear is pressured)

LOVE IS BLIND (fear is judgmental)

LOVE RESPECTS (fear disregards)

LOVE ACCEPTS (fear rejects)

LOVE DREAMS (fear schemes)

LOVE WANTS TO PLAY (fear needs to control)

LOVE ENJOYS (fear suffers)

LOVE FREES (fear imprisons)

LOVE BELIEVES (fear deceives)

LOVE “WANTS” (fear “needs”)

LOVE versus fear: what do you feel?

By Sarah Nean Bruce

Happy New YOU

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With every New Year you feel like it is time to create and make positive changes in your life.

For the first 30 days you feel so motivated to go to gym, lose weight, and start a new business or to make changes if you have one and to make new social decisions and so on.

Unfortunately, making resolutions for the New Year prove to be useless. Most people keep it up for neither 30 days nor even 15 days sometimes and then they go back to the old habits, which are familiar and safe.

Old habits are hard to break even though some could be harmful and damaging to you and others. It was DR. Wayne Dyer that said: “If you change the way you look at things, the thing you look at change. “

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Do You Believe in Magic?

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Many years ago, I was a schoolteacher in Connecticut, teaching second grade in a Jewish school. For the arrival of the Independence Day of Israel in May, I asked my students to write birthday wishes to the country of Israel, which we would send to the Western Wall in Jerusalem.

The Western Wall, also known as the Wailing Wall, is one of the original structures of the Holy Temple that survived the destruction of the Temple by the Roman Empire in 70 ACE. It has been a site for Jewish prayer and pilgrimage for many years, and I was privileged to visit there many times in my life and feel the essence of the history that vibrates through me. Read More

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